Have you ever tried to use the law of attraction to achieve something in your life? Have you ever failed?
Some people when they fail decide that “it is all just a big scam” or that they just weren’t “positive” enough. In this post I want to share eight impediments to using the law of attraction successfully.
By knowing the obstacles we can avoid them and deal with them if needed, it also provides another reason for the failure.
1 Negative thoughts- these are all the thoughts that negate the idea of the achievement. Let’s say you want a promotion at work or a better paying job , negative thoughts would be thinking about all the reasons why you won’t achieve it: The economy is in recession, your coworkers have a better connection with the boss, you don’t always succeed at your job and so on.
Clearly this way of thinking is the exact opposite of what you should be doing- thinking about all the reasons why you will succeed. It doesn’t matter what you think the “reality” is.
For example let’s take the last argument- you don’t always succeed at your job, think about all the managers you (If it didn’t happen to you it probably happened to one of your friends.) had who were less qualified then you. The “reality” is fluid it constantly changes according to your point of view. When you know you deserve it you’ll achieve it.
2 You’re not motivated enough- If I tell you that you have one year to make a million dollar or else I’ll kill you or your family and you can’t go to the cops will you achieve it? This is a radical example yet it shows that with the right amount of motivation you can achieve anything.
Find what motivates you, if for instance you want a luxury car go to the dealership and ask them to test drive it. Feel what it will be like when you’ll own such a car. Collect pictures of it and anything that will make you feel that you own it. Remind yourself why you want it. There are countless resources for motivation: books, seminars ,audio cassettes use them daily.
People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing -- that’s why we recommend it daily.— Zig Ziglar
3Patience- Although you create your reality with your thoughts and emotions, it takes time. How much time? That depends on the ratio between beneficial and negative thoughts and upon your skills. It’s a simple math, the more positive thoughts believing that it is possible for you the quicker it will be achieved.
Another example is if you are working on changing your personality (e.g. become braver or more assertive) then you have to give yourself time to change.
4 Attachment- The word attachment means that you fear you’ll fail. You’re attached to the outcome rather than release it to the universe. The attachment doesn’t have to be a word or a phrase you say to yourself, sometimes it is just a feeling, a fear that you won’t achieve your desired outcome.
To release it remember that it is your job to decide what it is you want and do whatever you can to achieve it, after that the universe will do the rest.
5Doing nothing- It is not enough to visualize your desired outcome or to repeat affirmations. You have to help god help you. If you want to lose weight and you don’t eat less or exercise you’ll probably won’t lose weight. All the techniques should supplement they aren’t the main course of action. If it is difficult try a mentor or a coach someone that achieved it already or someone that will motivate you and give you tools to succeed.
In this video Will Smith talks about the law of attraction and about the importance of work.
6Beliefs- Sometimes your believes get in the way of your outcome. For instance if you want to be rich but you believe that all rich people are greedy or that “money doesn’t grow on trees” and so on then even if you’ll make a lot of money you’ll find ways to get rid of it even quicker, after all you don’t want to be greedy right? You’ll need to work on those believes before you’ll see progress.
You can work on your beliefs on your own or use a professional.
7Asking god- Believe it or not asking god isn’t a good idea because:
a) He/she already knows what you want.
b) By asking you’re declaring that you don’t create your reality after all if you did you wouldn’t ask god for help right?
c) You implant the idea that you don’t have the things you ask for now.
What you can do is to feel and think as if the things you want are already present in your life. Don’t try to lie to yourself, if you’re trying to lose weight and you can’t say to yourself that you’re thin then at least you can say that you’re becoming thinner every day. Say it with emotion, really feel it and believe it.
8 Not wanting it enough- All the aforementioned impediments really come down to this one. All the obstacles are really excuses. If right now you’ll decide that you’re going to dedicate your life to become rich and really focus solely on this: you will go to seminars to get a financial education, you’ll find a mentor, you’ll work on your people skills etc, You will become rich without a doubt.
Yes it requires a sacrifice, you’ll probably have to watch less TV and maybe see your friends less often. So is it worth it? Your answer will determine your success.
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15 Responses to “8 Obstacles To Using The Law Of Attraction Successfully”
raba-ji
1 year ago
I found this post to be put together really well. I also really liked the Will Smith YouTube embedded clip. What Will Smith talked about echoes one of the first things taught in “Think & Grow Rich”; the concept of determination and drive. The Idea that “I’m gonna make it or die trying”. Putting everything into making what we want happen.
Also, along with Negative thinking, being a stumbling block, I would include negative emoting. It’s easier to assess where we are in our thoughts by searching our feelings. When we, as people, act it is usually on feeling a certain way or false beliefs, or ideas we have about something (which both do initially stem from thoughts).
Once the Opposing thought, feeling, belief or idea is identified you can overcome it by the realization of the truth. What is the truth about your thoughts, feelings, beliefs and ideas? They are what ever you decide them to be for yourself and you have the power to change them NOW!
Thank you
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shimon
1 year ago
Thank you Raba-ji for you kind words, and I agree our emotions are indeed a powerful tool to assess our state.
Jason
1 year ago
Hey,
I like your site a lot! It’s very helpful and has a lot of good stuff on it. Just wanted to drop by and introduce myself.
Maybe we can do a link exchange? Let me know.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Jason
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shimon
1 year ago
Thanks Jason nice to meet you. A link exchange sounds great. I used your contact form.
Paola
1 year ago
great article, inspirational and well written take a bow.. we also focus on the personal developement side of things, always learning
thanks for sharing
Paola
Success Coach
shimon
1 year ago
Hi Paola thanks for stopping by. I love your site it looks very professional.
Sedie
1 year ago
This is the first time I’ve been to your blog, I stopped by to drop a card. But This post got me to stay awhile. I totally believe that when we get out of our own way, we will achieve all that we want to achieve. I’m guilty of a few of the obstacles listed here, however, now that I am aware, I can change them and continue on my path to wealth. Thanks!
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shimon
1 year ago
Hi Sedie thanks for reading. I’m glad you find it useful.
Hicham
1 year ago
This is very useful indeed. It’s all about how we see the world arround us and how we see ourselves too.
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Perspective Shift Chris
1 year ago
I think this was an excellent post, well written and laid out nicely. However I’ll have to disagree with step 7. I think, like you mentioned earlier, it has a lot to do with your beliefs. So for everyone, asking God wouldn’t be such a bad idea, depending on those beliefs.
My uncle is a Christan Pragmatist who believes that prayer does nothing but change our own perception on the matters at hand. So, for him, asking God would be more like a tool used for self transformation. But it was some very good advice, and I actually do agree, I just think it varies from person to person.
Very thought compelling, keep up the good work! I’m growing very fond of your blog.
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shimon
1 year ago
Thanks Hicham
Hi Chris thanks for commenting. I completely agree with you about prayer it changes our own perception on the matters at hand. I want to distinguish between the kind of prayer I believe is effective and asking god.
I would like to say that there isn’t a right or wrong way to pray but the fact is that there is. It isn’t because god says OK to some requests and decline others. it is because you create your reality with the help of god of course.
He/She gave you the power to create your reality, and therefore when you ask you’re declaring that you don’t create your reality and you’re sabotaging your efforts.
B.t.w I love the design of your blog.
Perspective Shift Chris
1 year ago
Yes, I do agree. It’s almost as if, as opposed to wishful thinking or hoping we should LIVE the way we would like our lives to be. From what I’ve experienced this is the best way to use the Law of Attraction to your advantage.
Heh, thanks a lot, I appreciate it. I can say the same about your site
I’m loving the simplicity, neatness, and definitely the Drop Cap feature of your posts. I use to use it when I was working with Wordpress but I had issues with it.
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shimon
1 year ago
Yes Chris thanks that is exactly what I mean.
Faith
11 months ago
Where do I submit my claim form ?
shimon
11 months ago
Hi Faith you can use my contact form at the top menu.